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Trueafrican

07-08-2009, 12:40 PM

I was in a farewell party sometimes last month and something came up. One of my pals came with a hot lady whom I had a crush on... I managed to exchange lil conversation with her but I dint get to drive in the point.

This lady is hot and am sure we gat something in common from the way she was talking to me.

Would it be wise if tell her of what am feeling. How will my pal react to this....am really confused.

Kindly advice..

R@n3

07-08-2009, 12:48 PM

if the girl in question, best suggestion is that you hear your heart, then you will know what you need to do ;)

Trueafrican

07-08-2009, 01:18 PM

if the girl in question, best suggestion is that you hear your heart, then you will know what you need to do ;)

How about the aftermath, the whole thing might backfire on me, this things happen. Do you a have an idea how I might kick-start and his boy never knowing what's cutting?

Melon

07-08-2009, 01:27 PM

So the girl is your mate's girlfriend? If that's the case it can get tricky buddy. My mate's girlfriend is really freaky in bed and i'd really like to F. her and she me apparently, but she wont cheat on my mate and i wont let her so we don't do anything.

You could do something similar, definately tell her but don't try to steal her unless you really can't stand being without her.

Terminator

07-08-2009, 01:27 PM

My friend Depending on the atmosphere , please listen to your heart you'll get the answer right there.When the moment has arrive , just call here and in a romantic tone just tell here whats down your heart , am sure she will sure "melt" :d(yn)

Tars

07-08-2009, 01:37 PM

You could wait and see how their relationship develops and if it looks like they are just messing around then tell her but if your friend has real feelings for this women then don't say a word.

missfatta

07-08-2009, 01:47 PM

i don t think that s a good move telling her what u feel..as a woman i can tell u i would prefer you invite me to go out rather then telling me that u want to be with me...think about this:if she doesn t like u and u tell her that u do like her she would be very embarassed and wouldn t know what to tell u..if u ask her to go out instead, she can tell u yes or, if she is not intersted she can tell u she is busy ;)

07-08-2009, 02:17 PM

if its your friend girlfrend leave well alone as a friendship is worth 20 ladys

missfatta

07-08-2009, 02:23 PM

if its your friend girlfrend leave well alone as a friendship is worth 20 ladys
you are right, i completely agree with u cf...a girl leaves u fast but a friend never leaves u...

bloodhacker2

07-08-2009, 03:05 PM

ok man, when i am talking to girls i have a strategy..

when i go into their room i pic out a few small things like magazines, or what brand of make up she where, you know girl shit..

this kinda thing will help me strike a conversation with her and makes her think i am paying close attention to her or she will notice that you guys have something in common.

also if you guys get to gather alone, start the 20 questions game, but ask small questions, NEVER SEXUAL QUESTIONS. Only unless she starts it first. you don't want to make her think you are just trying to get into her pants.

text her back and forth, and send her sweet comments on myspace. But nothing to strong..

do this kinda thing for about a good week and then start with the bigger bombs.

start telling her how beautiful she is, but once again don't be to strong. comment her on small things, if she wares her hair a different way tell her you like if even if you dont. (This goes for earrings, glasses, clothes, perfume, anything and everything) BUT DONT BE TO STRONG.

The point is that you need to become her bestfriend first before you can start telling her your feelings about her, instead of telling her your feelings, make her notice you on a level that is not to strong..

ooo and as for the "L" word, DONT SAY IT until you guys have been dating strong for at least 2-3months or longer..

if you say it too soon she will think you are a creep.

The point is that you dont want to come off strong, you want to come off as the sweet guy, after about 2-3 weeks of doing this stuff it becomes time to truly drop the big bomb. this next one is very important and will definitely get you a date with her or even a relationship..

Send her 12 red roses at work, and in the card drop another big bomb. put "from a sweet guy, to a beautiful girl...". why dose this work. Because girls arnt trying to get you to notice her, they are trying to out do other girls. I'ts this sick fucking game the girls play with each other and when you send her flowers all the girls in her office will go nuts and she will be the spotlit of attention.. GIRLS LOVE BEING IN THE SPOT LITE.

and do this randomly, not on her birthday or the V day, do it like on a Monday or something..
when she calls you (and trust me she will call you) and she ask why you did it tell her that you just like to think of her smiling.

trust me if you do as i tell you i can almost be surtin that you will have her as a gf soon..

pm me if you have any questions... my tricks work all the time.

bloodhacker2

07-08-2009, 03:10 PM

O ya and if it your bestfriends gf, become her bestfriend. dont do anything i told you to do if that is the case.

you never want to loose a best friend, trust me dude their are more girls out their.

Trust me girls are fucking evil, but you cant live without them.
A best guy friend will stay with you forever. girls will come and go.

bloodhacker2

07-08-2009, 03:13 PM

o ya and that listen to your hart bullshit is crap, lol my hart sometimes tells me to get in her paints and that dose not work..

just do what i tell you and it will work.

unless she is a crazy ass bitch..

and if she is a red head, watch the fuck out dude. redheads are crazy in bed but are also crazy in relationships..

eyesonyouu

07-08-2009, 03:55 PM

if its your friend girlfrend leave well alone as a friendship is worth 20 ladys

+ 1 ...........

CybeRnotic

07-08-2009, 05:45 PM

I can give you just one little advice

If you really are interested about it, don't let to go

I made this mistake before and my girl of my life isn't here with me

_Raziel_

07-08-2009, 06:20 PM

If you feel something more then phisical atraction towards her and you think she is worth losing you're friend then do so, but watch out, you might end up with a broken heart and a friend witch would hate you for the rest of his life. If it's just the hormons here then go out with another girl and "cool yourself off" don't screw the friend relationship between you and you're mate if you don't love this girl and feel that you can't live withowt her, and try to aproach her normally but always talk gentle and be calm with her, try to find out if she feels something for you, or if you would be just a obidient little puppy for her. If she does not feel anything for you then my advise to you is leave it! Or you might end up starting a war you might not be able to cary on...

BTW

If you are skinny/chubby/too tall or too shirt or any S**T like that, don't worry yourself about it, go for it it! Try to see if shes interested in you, since if she turns you down you will suffer...but if you don't speak to her and she will eventually get involved even deeeper with someone else and you will lose her then you will suffer for the rest of yourlife that you did not had the courage to go and talk to her when you had the chance.

And not many girls fall for "I love you" or "You mean the world to me" or other stuff like that, if she is a romantical person then try to be romantic as well and surprise her, no not by buying her a car but through little things, and if she isent the pervy kinda girl, then respect her and don't touch her if she does not give you signs that she would want to be touched or even more.

Girls don't need expencive things like jewelry and other stuff like that you see in movies and cartoons, they just need atention, caring, respect and love, if you give her all that then you will win her heart, and if you will win her heart, you win her. 95% of the times a girl is impressed by the smallest and the most insignificat things men find it as non-important, but by just listening to her and beying there for her is what a girl really cares for and wants to have next to her.

farrell

07-08-2009, 06:26 PM

if you only have a crush on her and she doesnt know it, go for someone else. there are millions of hot girls out there and you have the same chance of being with someone else than your crush. i agree with _Raziel_, not worth it if you lost both.

unknown

07-11-2009, 08:27 PM

dude........

1.stalking her dose not mean she loves you
2. the conversations you have with her in your head don't really happen
3. you got invited to a party....? really? YOU..?
4. its 5 am im bored and taking the piss

upnorth

07-11-2009, 08:53 PM

http://i29.tinypic.com/2607vb9.gif
Thats my advice! :P

/UpNorth

ShadowSphere

07-11-2009, 09:22 PM

Dude, it's as simple of this. It's either one of your best pals, or her. Choose either or. Don't ruin true friendship over a girl. Not worth it. Friends are for life, women are temporary (for the most part). If you chase her, you risk losing your pal and her at the same time. Choose wisely in your best interests.

Permelia

10-15-2009, 03:03 PM

10-15-2009, 03:08 PM

read the bloody post date i think he would have sorted this by now thread closed
(http://www.katzforums.com/member.php?u=257663)